How
many times have we heard that phrase? Usually, we attribute it to raising
children. But if we stop for a moment to think, why should we limit our sense
of responsibility to children? Aren’t we also, in some way, responsible for our
neighbors?
When
we see the older neighbor who until recently has always dressed impeccably and
now appears disheveled, or the one with the recent dents in the car, or perhaps
the one who struggles suddenly to remember our name after we’ve been friends
for years, what course of action can we take without seeming like a buttinsky?
(My apologies if “Buttinsky” is your last name; I do not mean to offend)
If
you’re fortunate enough to have lived in a building long enough, you may have
your neighbor’s emergency contact number. (That is something I suggest we all
do – more on that another column). If so, and in the kindest manner, let them
know that you’re concerned. Don’t offer to put yourself “in charge” unless
you’re comfortable doing so. Give the contact person your observations, and
hope they will take measures. If the neighbor’s loved ones live out of town,
it’s your opportunity to educate them on the resources available in the area:
Independent Senior Communities, Assisted Living Facilities, Home Health
agencies, Senior Centers or advocacy groups such as the Alzheimer’s
Association, Alliance for the Aging and The Jewish Federation of Palm Beach
County.
At
Pacifica Senior Living Palm Beach , we are committed to our seniors and to
serving our residents and the surrounding community. We can help, so call today
if you, a loved one or your neighbor need more information.
Sleep
peacefully knowing that you’ve treated your neighbor as you would want to be
treated.
Visit
us on the web at www.PacificaSeniorLiving.com or call us at 561-434-0434
Patricia Conlon
Marketing Director, Pacifica Senior Living Palm Beach